[讨论]讨论下感情观吧

fenshuiyu

经常看到转的一大摞一大摞的文字，讲的不外乎男爱女，女不爱男，或者女爱男，男不爱女，在或者就是男女相爱，以上都不是的话，也跑不出男女不相爱，但是暧昧着。
早年还会逐句的审阅一遍，然后为两人的命运唏嘘一番。现在好像就没这耐心了，可能是因为人一上了年纪，就不好这口风花雪月了。o(∩_∩)o...哈哈
但是我好像对这些已经不仅仅是不耐烦，好像有点厌恶了，可能是因为类似的文字泛滥得太厉害。而文字层面的东西，往往给人极其美好的想像空间，即使是个再不合理的情节，到了纸上，或者是电脑屏幕上，就开始唯美。男孩子的霸道，女孩子的任性，主角们的幼稚，不负责任，都有一个顺理成章的美感。
切！
我觉得吧，男女之间的相处就是互利互惠，当然不仅仅是金钱或者生理上的需要，更多的（基于女性角度）真的是情感需要。经常有人说这个女生怎么这么傻，为她的男人做这么多，什么什么的。是的，从某个角度来看确实是傻，但是对于女孩子来说，他的付出绝对是赢得了回报了的。起码在旁人看来他就是一个奉献的女朋友，不要怀疑，这个虚名有时候对女孩子来说也能够满足的。
说喜欢吧，还是不习惯用AI那么严重的字眼。喜欢一个人，就想得到他的承认，接不接受是一回事，但是对方必须要看到我的好。
尤其是不喜欢评价别人的感情世界，这种事情真的就像穿鞋，好不好只有他们两个自己知道。在我们看来是受虐，在他自己是享受。
好像说岔了，也好像说太多了，反正，感情吗，合则来，不合则散。如果在一起开心多过于不爽，那就够了，话说缘分就是在对的时间，遇上对的人，但是我哪知道什么时候是对的时间，谁是对的人？感觉不错就继续，感觉完了，就去找对的人吧。

不看铁达尼

己所不欲，勿施于人

zuoliang

<B>以下是引用<I>雨哥哥</I>在2007-9-14 21:05:49的发言：</B>
我的爱情观就是偶签名撒，我要的爱情，一生只要一次，一次一生！

一样一样```` 么么```

雨哥哥

我的爱情观就是偶签名撒，我要的爱情，一生只要一次，一次一生！

vickixiong

现在终于明白了，原来暧昧还有这么一层意思！

裸亨

<B>以下是引用<I>fenshuiyu</I>在2007-9-13 1:03:32的发言：</B>

<P>。。。</P>
<P>看了回帖，还是感觉摸不着边际，不仅搞不清楚自己当初为什么要写这一通，也搞不清楚大家在说什么。。。</P>
<P>么么么，就针对最后的回帖，a long and lasting love</P>
<P>什么嘛。。。love 一旦 lasting了，就已经变味了，虽然生活还可以通过经营来制造不少的激情和火花，但是和刚开始的爱来爱去已经不是一个概念了，而且，我也不觉得有什么lasting的love，都是扯淡。</P>
<P>在异性身上寻找认同感是人类或者说是动物的本性，而能够得到多数的异性的承认更是人获得精神满足的一个极为有效的途径，所以，出轨不在于他/她成功，空虚，幸福与否，而在于他的兽性是不是战胜了他的理性。</P>
<P>不否认，我自己也存在一种虚荣感，就是被男生追求的虚荣感，虽然我不玩弄人，但是我也不轻易的拒绝人，算是为自己留一条后路，也算是一种获得满足的来源。</P>
<P>人就是这样矛盾的东西，话说己所不欲，勿施于人，但是我自认自己就做不到，我不能大气到看男友整天的泡MM，却自己和别人心有默契的暧昧着，虽然我知道我不可能和他在一起，也知道他喜欢我，但是他来一句，我就对一句，我想他也知道我不会跟他有什么结果，于是他也不开口说什么，只是大家暧昧着...</P>
<P>哈哈，我知道暧昧会受人鄙视的，我们寝室就有人强烈不能接受暧昧，觉得会变质，但是如果感情的世界就只有你和我，真的就很快变成没了二氧化碳的可乐，从不好喝变成超级难喝了...</P>
<P>个人观点，请千万不要对我进行人身攻击，谢谢</P>

说得不错，做得不好。

风飘扬

付出了，就不要后悔。

yysea

<P>我靠  来英语了  搞不定</P><P>Let me shan.</P>

fenshuiyu

<B>以下是引用<I>starsailor19</I>在2007-9-13 12:15:49的发言：</B>

<P>what is life? remind me of one song:</P>
<P>When the stars are in her eyes
And the sun is in her smile
The only moment in a life
That happens the same time
Is when a woman loves a man

She'll be a mother and a child
Sacrifice her days and nights
And no other will exist
She'll put her life in every kiss
When a woman loves a man

And you'll be amazed at when you're stumbling
She'll fight for you
And won't let you give in
She'll do all that she can
When a woman loves a man

A soothing breeze always blows
Somebody understands another soul
It's like the planets have aligned
Every sentence has a rhyme
When a woman loves a man

Oh, you'll be amazed how when
You're needing it
She'll fight for you
From the beginning to the end
And she'll do all that she can
When a woman loves a man

It's the greatest gift of all
Knowing that unconditionally
She'll catch you when you fall
</P>
<P>I think, when a man loves a woman, it is the same!</P>
<P>Love is something you can never expected, but something come accross you by chance,</P>
<P>Love is what?</P>
<P>Nothing else, but I love you!</P>
<P>Love is not where are you but when will you come back home! </P>
<P>Love is ……</P>

so romantic...
but for me, love is just feelings of passion, vanity and so on, a life i imaged and expected, maybe sometime what i loved is not the person beside me, but the life with him.
but sometime i was confused coz i don't wanna others but him, and i didn't feel that i loved him so much.
so maybe what i am looking for is not one person, coz no one real can be my Mr.right. what i'm looking for is a kind of perfect man in my subconscious. and one day when i'm tired of looking for this guy, i'll just stay with someone and get some feelings from anohter guy. of course i'll be honest with this relationship, i won't be a betrayer.

starsailor19

<P>what is life? remind me of one song:</P><P>When the stars are in her eyes
And the sun is in her smile
The only moment in a life
That happens the same time
Is when a woman loves a man

She'll be a mother and a child
Sacrifice her days and nights
And no other will exist
She'll put her life in every kiss
When a woman loves a man

And you'll be amazed at when you're stumbling
She'll fight for you
And won't let you give in
She'll do all that she can
When a woman loves a man

A soothing breeze always blows
Somebody understands another soul
It's like the planets have aligned
Every sentence has a rhyme
When a woman loves a man

Oh, you'll be amazed how when
You're needing it
She'll fight for you
From the beginning to the end
And she'll do all that she can
When a woman loves a man

It's the greatest gift of all
Knowing that unconditionally
She'll catch you when you fall
</P><P>I think, when a man loves a woman, it is the same!</P><P>Love is something you can never expected, but something come accross you by chance,</P><P>Love is what?</P><P>Nothing else, but I love you!</P><P>Love is not where are you but when will you come back home! </P><P>Love is ……</P>